May 13, 2020
What if I marry someone with bad credit?
Man is materialistic these days in every aspect of life.Man thinks of things and relates them to the economy. Man’s strategy is very clear about the life and affairs of life. Even if you want to make a friend most of you will think about the other person’s economic condition and then to decide whether to go for friendship or not. Just imagine if a man takes everything economically what will be his standard to tie the knot with someone. An absolutely economic level will be deciding a lot of marriages that where to go and how to go. This was the starter that I loved to share about the topic and now coming to the point I will be discussing the question coming across to the girl who asked it.
In western societies, girls are allowed to choose their spouses and they make their girls independent in the matter of taking decisions of life such as when to marry and where to live? Whom to live with? When to marry? And with whom to marry? They will be deciding these things as compared to European states in South Asia especially in India and Pakistan girls are not allowed to take such types of decisions.
In South Asia, parents use to find such a groom that economically sound and have got great looks, etc. If luckily girls got open-minded parents and they are allowed to choose their parents they have to do it with one condition that guy should be well settled and have got great credit to his name. A girl from Punjab Pakistan asked his parents to fix her marriage with a guy who had bad credit. As per expectations they immediately denied for her proposal just because of bad credit. She straight away asked for a reason and she was briefed by giving the following reasons
Social pressure
Parents were about to start their proceeding with their daughter the first thing they said east social pressure, means what people will say about? What was the reason that girl could not make it to a good debt person? They will be raising questions straight away on her character.
Secured future
The second point they tolled was a guy is not having a safe and secure future how he can make it safe for you and your lades will be coming after the wedding so it’s not safe to marry that man.
The girl was still not satisfied with the reasons. She went on taking stand.She said that she will going to marrying the same guy, because she believes she can make it possible for him to grow up and get to the good credit. Her parents asked about the plans, the plan she explored is mentioned below.
Find out the reason. She will be detecting the partner’s credit reports to check it out where he gets wrong. Having a good job and still not saving? It’s not to blame someone else but to review his expenditures and draw and decide a difference to take care of what is necessary and what’s not.
Get to the root of the problem
She will be getting to the roots of the underlying problem and its basic reasons for which his partner has the bad credit. She will try to know if it was due to overuse, not planning for emergencies or some other issue. Once she gets it, they both will work to overlook and change it.
Develop a plan of action
If she gets a reason for which her husband is having bad credit, she will be discussing her husband and they will both make some standards of operations to grow up and build good credit.
Review the progress
Once things and sops are decided by both partners.They will be sitting after every 15 days to check out the progress of plans whether it’s working or not.If it’s working they will be doing some savings for the emergency situations.
